Sometimes I wonder what motivates people to hurt one and other. What do you really get out of it? All my life I have known people that seem to only exist to hurt other people and mess up lives . You know what I mean people who are unsatisfied with their own lives , so they seem to think it is up to them to "stir the pot" and find trouble for others. Like Mike from Jersey shore.
They mess up peoples lives for no apparent reason and somehow come out smelling like a rose instead of the trouble making rat they really are. They mingle their snakey selves into friendships and then pick a side ( they become closer to one person whom they can benefit somehow). Next thing you know the two original friends are fighting and the snake "consoles" that friend. After having created the problems in the first place.
I have known of people coming in between life long friendships . They broke them up with lying ,cheating,stealing and worse of all just somehow turning friends against each other like it's a game to them.Very rarely do they get caught but even when the do ,the original friendships get broken beyond repair. Oh these type people are so good at acting innocent and sincere. They pretend they are "trying to help". they tell you things "they think you should know".
I had one friend who was helping out a woman who seemed to be so good to her. I told my friend I don't like this person and it became an issue between us.Well long story short this friend and I had a parting of ways and her new friend ( the one I thought was trouble,who insisted I was the trouble maker) had a baby with my friends husband.'Nuff said.
People don't believe you when you warn them about snakes.Snakes are that good,convincing and conning their ways into peoples hearts. I have tried to warn friends about snakes. It hardly ever works and generally blows up in my face.They really do not want to hear. Why? Because they are trusting.They are good . They don't believe someone who makes them feel so good and good about them selves could do them harm.
I want you to know I an not a snake but I recognize them , If I give you a warning take heed. I am not trying to hurt anyone just the opposite . If we part ways because of a snake, and then you get hurt. You can come back to me . I will not say "I told you so "! I will take you back as a friend whole heartedly, no questions asked . Because once I am a friend, I am a friend forever, my heart never loses that space that you owned. Don't be afraid to come home.
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